If men could see all the time most women take to get ready to spend time with them they would shutter. All my life I have been myself, loving me for every flaw and every success. I have a hard time understanding why a lot of women worry about if someone will turn their attention toward them if they dont have their three hours of getting ready time each day under their belt. Truth be told, we have to take that off sometimes or freshen it up or they will see who we really are underneath.
I think it is just hard for me to wrap my head around changing for other people. I think it is good to change if you feel like inside you need to change something, a little over weight, not very well read, things like that. But when dealing with other people, our personality shines most over looks if someone takes the time to talk.
Women pay too much money to look better with lifts, tucks, fillers. In the end, we are still the same person with extra credits. Expressing our selves is great but over doing it just looks like we over did it. In the morning we are still who we were yesterday. We may grow and learn and better ourselves and that is great. I just have a problem with coating. I think as women we are beatuiful in every way. We may have some ugly ways but those can change. I think being myself has gotten me further in life than trying to impress anyone. I was told by a friend, "if they arent there when you cry, if they dont help pay the bills and they dont see you for you then they arent important in your life". I pretty much live by that now in my life.
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